I’ve been looking at old family photos and it’s fun to see how certain characteristics continue through generations.

From noses (unfortunately for me!) to height, ear shape and even gestures, I see many similarities between late relatives and myself and English Rose.

For me, though, one of the most special links with those who’ve gone before is a smile.

My paternal grandmother had a beautiful smile as did her daughter, my dear aunt.

When English Rose smiled at me for the first time, glimpsing a bit of that special, familiar smile lighting up her baby face and blue eyes is still a cherished memory.

At any time, a friendly smile makes life better but now especially, when our world is so troubled and frightening, its power is even greater.

Whether from a friend, neighbour, store staff or dog, a warm smile makes me hopeful and gives me happiness, calm and connection.

Smiling also spreads joy and reminds me to appreciate simple pleasures.

Since I live in a small town, smiling is more frequent here than in a large city.

I don’t smile as freely or often in London, England, for instance, where despite campaigns to encourage it, smiling at strangers on public transport or elsewhere is more suspicious rarity than norm.

Still, in the right context, a smile costs nothing and when intended as a friendly gesture it can brighten both a day and a life.

Even though things seem grim, I’m focusing on smiles as an easy mood booster.

It’s why I have a print of the cover for A Family for the Rodeo Cowboy, part of my Montana Carters sweet romance series for Harlequin Heartwarming, displayed in my home office.

That joyous little girl makes me smile too!

Besides, the power of a smile may travel far beyond any one of us.

Like kindness, if you receive a friendly and generous smile, pass it on.

It doesn’t take much to make a positive difference, and we can all start with a simple but powerful smile.

And to my American readers…I wish you a happy (and smiley) Thanksgiving!